The following is from Beautiful Womanhood!
Enjoy!
What stirs the embers of romance deep inside you?
·
Loving
Words
·
Touch
·
A Night
Out?
Maybe
you haven’t thought about romance lately because of busyness, fatigue,
disillusionment, or hopelessness.
I’ve been there too.
But romance with the man you love may not be as elusive as you might think.
Though
we all desire romance—every woman longs to be
noticed, pursued, and adored—few of us realize that…
our
words and actions
may serve as stumbling blocks rather than invitations
for the man in our life to woo us romantically.
If this is true, then we’re sabotaging the very romance we
desire. Reminds me of the saying,
“If you do what you’ve always done, you’ll get what
you’ve always gotten.”
Do you like what you’re experiencing in regard to romance?
If
not, ask yourself if you’re more likely to trust OR control your husband.
You’ve
seen the controlling type.
Most women on TV sitcoms struggle with control. They walk all over the men they’re with and it bothers us.
Most women on TV sitcoms struggle with control. They walk all over the men they’re with and it bothers us.
It’s easy to detect control in others, but are you guilty of
similar actions?
Let’s
look deeper and find out.
1. Do
you correct your husband?
2. Do
you instruct your husband?
3. Do
you improve your husband?
Do you correct your husband’s pronunciation
or perhaps the
telling of a story when you know he’s got the
facts mixed up?
When you correct your husband you’re telling him he did something wrong.
In
this position you’ve become his mother. And that’s a romance killer if there
ever was one.
Do you instruct your husband when he drives, performs
tasks, or helps out with the kids?
When you instruct your husband, you’re sending the message, “You don’t know how to do this.”
In
this position you become the teacher who highlighted his ineptitude. Exposed,
he’ll either shrink or strike back, rather than pursue.
Do you improve your husband?
In
the past, I’ve tried to improve Tom’s appearance whenever possible. Once, when
dressing for dinner at an elegant restaurant on vacation, I wore a vintage
cashmere jacket with pearls and heels while Tom wore an improbable, wrinkled
ensemble worthy of an episode of What Not
to Wear. Yet, I didn’t say a word! (Some of you may be appreciating the
restraint that required!) If I’d shared
my fashion-improvement advice with him, I would have sent the romance-spoiling message, “You
could have done better.”
In what areas do you try to improve your
husband?
When
we correct, instruct, and improve, we justify our actions by saying we’re just
trying to help when, in reality, the
measures we employ have more to do with fear—the fear that we won’t get what we
want or we’ll get it too late.
Whenever our actions are borne
of fear, the results we experience will be disappointing at best!
Give your fears to God and trust your husband with new words and actions…
Inviting
him to romance.
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